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Debs Francis's avatar

I agree in some instances experiencing trauma can bring about positive change and build resilience, however this is usually only possible if the traumatized individual has enough support around them in the form of positive friends, family and psychological/spiritual mentors and of cause groups like R&R definitely help. Trauma can be an agent for change but a traumatized individual can’t do this own their own or without the right help and intervention. Ultimately the individual also needs to want to find the positives and move forward as well !

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Courtney Bright's avatar

Thought-provoking post, trying to work out my own stance on it. Overall I like the “post-traumatic growth” concept and can relate to it. I think it’s a concept to tread carefully with, though.

Yes, we can grow from our traumas and in many ways they make us the people we are today. But the first quote in the article lists rape as such a trauma, for example. How can we promote growth concepts while avoiding any pitfalls like “oh she was raped, but look at all the fantastic personal growth she’ll get out of that!”?

To me, growth is a silver lining of trauma and a way for us to create meaning from it. But it doesn’t make the trauma a good thing.

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